Sunday, May 18, 2008

My first trip to San Fran...a VERY long story

So last week I went to try and help Ryan find a place to live in the beautiful bay area. We have a few places picked out that we would like to live and they all focus in areas that the BART goes too--we call it the Metro back in DC but its the train system out there. So here is the map of possibilities.
So many people have liked the Walnut Creek area so that is where we are focusing I guess. I went to one of the wards and they were so great. Also, it was beautiful and had great shops/restaurants/trails/parks...really family oriented place. Ryan will then take the BART everyday (a 45 minute ride from Walnut Creek to his stop--Embarcadero), which I got to experience first hand, and yes it was quite the experience! Well, i guess just getting out to Cali and back was the experience and as always with me it seems that life is never uncomplicated.

So the day I was supposed to leave. Ryan scheduled my flights so he of course had me leaving at about 7 pm (which we all know who have kids you shouldn't leave on an airplane at the kids bedtime right?!). So I thought I had the whole day to get ready. Well this is what happens of course. We get up, eat breakfast, take care of Lucy (our dog), start some laundary...get a phone call...well the phone says that our car is TOTALLED. Well, the car looked pretty bad but it was just the front, so it can be fixed, right? Nope, its a volvo and one headlight costs $400 dollars and so if you include two headlight and the two whiper blade things it adds up to $1200 dollars...so you can guess that to fix everything else (the whole front including things in by the engine, possiblly the engine the....blah blah blah)....so basically the car was totalled because it was simply too expensive to fix--i'm not a huge volvo fan at the moment! The guy says that there were some personal belongings found in the car that needed to be picked up. Which means that for me that had to happen THAT DAY, since I was leaving. so then I look at the time, 10 something...okay this is do-able right. then he says it about 45 minutes away south of Dallas. OKAY, its still do able right? Well, I'm doing laundry for the trip, Harrison needs a nap forsure to survive the 3+ hour flight, I need to pack for Harrison and I, take lucy to a place to stay, spend an hour on the phone with the insurance, need to drop off the rental car, figure out how to get to the plane from rental place, drive down to the middle of nowhere to pick up a toll tag and some trash (personal belonging--Hah!), drive around on side roads to avoid the traffic that is at a stand still on the freeway because 3 trailer tractors turned over on the freeway (but we knew that would happen today right!!!) And still made it to the airport just in time to make it to my gate and find out the the plane was delayed and I get to spend the next two hours walking around the airport trying to calm down knowing that we are going on a 3+ hour plane ride still (all by myself), getting on a train for an hour and a half and will make it to our hotel at about 3 am my time. Sounds fun huh! But we have all had one of those days...especially when you get to your destination and find out that you flew to Cali for 5 days to find a house with your husband and find out that his work scheduled a last minute trip for him that would take up 3 of those days!!

The return trip was a little easier but I have definitely had better days. Ryan was of course out of town the day that I left so I packed up everything and planed my return. Ryan said to take a cab but I'm too cheep to ride in a cab for over 45 minutes when the train would just cost 7 bucks! So I swallowed my pride and got everything on my own. I used my sling to hold Harrison, put my bag under the stroller, ballanced the car seat in the stroller and pushed that with one hand and pulled my suit case behind me with the other hand, and walked to the BART!! It was close but it still didn't save the embarrasment of walking down a busy road to the station and have taxi driver's yelling to see if I wanted a ride to the airport! Then I got my ticket and almost fell down the escellator trying to balance everything (yes, I should have used the elevator but I couldnt figure out how to get it open without a key, weird huh?) I made it on train, survived the 1 1/2 hour ride figured out the trains at the aiport and made it to the gate. Well, then I had to figure out a way home! I had returned my rental car so I had no car, and when I called they were all out of cars (how's that possible I don't know but it was me so it happened!). So my brother in law called me back and they could get me. So that was set, so I get on the plane, Harrison sleeps for a little while and then wakes up with a fever! I luckily have tylenol but he is miserable! But I make it and I called my brother in law to see if there are any cars becasue I have to have one incase I have to take Harrison in (with my luck the one time he needs to go to the ER would be the day I have NO CAR!). Well after going to all of them there is one car that I can get for $61 a day, which I think is steep but, I need a car. So we finally get home and we survived (though poor Harrison keeps a fever and starts throwing up, a runny nose and coughing--I think he got every bug possible huh!) I don't like traveling anymore!

Anyway, If you made it this far in my blog Cali was gorgeous and It was fun to walk around. I had a great time those couple days Ryan was there looking around and spending Mother's day with him (which he was totally sweet and got me yummy see's chocolates, and picked out some clothes for me, which I do have to return because they don't fit, but they were too cute and its the thought right?!). I also got to see one of my Jerusalem roommates and her family!!! Which is the one, if any of you remember the story of how Ryan and I met there, helped start us out in the Holy Land! We had a great time and Susan was a ton of help talking about the area, which is where she grew up! Sorry for the way long story but...hey just needed some commiserating!

Just thought I would throw in a picture of my little sweety!!

10 comments:

Melanie said...

Laura,
I'm so sorry. It sounds completely miserable. Your story reminds me of the time I flew to California by myself with Tyler and Makenzie when she was only 6 weeks old. Remember- I borrowed your sling? It was a disaster. I had the double stroller, Tyler's car seat, my diaper bag, the sling and of course had to take everything apart and take it all off to go through security- that was a big joke. No one would even help fold up the stroller. Than to make matters worse, Tyler peed through his diaper in his carseat in the plane and so I was going to change him but the flight attendants wouldnt let me because they couldn't get off the plane until I got off. Not so nice. Anyways- I hope you find someplace soon. We think we might have found a place in Fremont. Hopefully we'll be somewhat close. I don't know where Walnut creek or ridge is or whatever it is called. I'll call you soon.

The Bobos said...

Hi Laura! It's Jenni (Girts) Bobo. I was so excited when I found your blog! I just wanted to tell you that you deserve Mom of the Year award. I'm so glad you made it through this trip and lived to tell about it. And Harrison is so cute! I hope everything goes well for your move. We're about to move to Fort Benning, GA and I have to fly with Natalie (she's 6 months) all by myself, pick out a house when we get there and then try and survive while we wait for our furniture. Fun, huh? I'll keep you in mind when I need some inspiration. You're amazing!

Sarah S said...

WOW that is quite the trip!! It is so hard traveling to a new place, let alone juggling a toddler and all of the gear too!

I really am so excited you are moving to the Bay Area! Ben's parents live in Fremont and I'm sure we'll come visit them next year. We'll for sure be there for Christmas 2009. Ben's brother and family lived in Walnut Creek a few years ago and loved it. I think it's such a cute area!

Good luck tying things up with moving! When are you set to leave?

Callie said...

well it turns out we were in SF the same time! shaun took me there for our anniversary/mothers day, we should have coordinated and met up... maybe we will have to come visit once your settled? so i would hate traveling to if i were you. isnt it funny what you do to avoid an expensive taxi ride? i hope next time, if you brave it, works out better!

Rebecca said...

Wow Laura. Quite the story. You are amazing. I'm sorry it was so crazy. I hope Harrison is all better soon and you'll have a healthy summer with a much smoother move. You deserve it!!

Jacy said...

That is the worst story ever! I'm so sorry things went so horribly, but I'm glad you liked San Francisco. You are such a trooper. I hope Harrison is feeling better asap, and that you are able to rest and relax after your nightmare trip!

Clair said...

Oh. My. Goodness. What a trip! I have to say I've had a couple stories that would come a close second to that, but you take the cake. Glad you survived. And I totally agree about traveling with little ones...no fun at all. But an adventure to be had for sure :) Good luck with your move! xoxo

Shannon said...

Oh wow! Super mom! What a miserable day. I hope your future time in Cali is much better than your visit. Kyle talked to Ryan...sounds like a great job opportunity. We were in San Fran in January, my first visit. It was great. Harrison is getting so big...I can't believe how much he resembles Kennedy. My kids still talk about her...her memory is still alive! Love you guys!

Ryan said...

Laura you are such a trooper! You are so awesome! Hope you guys find housing soon. What adventures you have! Miss you guys,
Maureen

Jill said...

Laura,
What a nightmare! I've never had an experience as bad as that, but I do remember trying to nurse Lia on an airplane between two burly men when she was only two weeks old and I had no idea what I was doing! I'm sure those guys got more than they bargained for on that flight...

I have been looking all over for your phone number -- I know I have it on a Post-It somewhere! Will you please email it to me? I have so much to catch up on with you guys!

We miss you and love you!